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Connect the dots
You had to start there ... to get here.

"You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards."
“Our website is an embarrassment.”
A recent prospect said that like a criminal confession.
I mean, yeah, the colors were dated. The layout screamed “2018 template” … because that’s (literally) what it WAS.
I felt their shame. Like being forced to revisit awkward yearbook photos. And honestly, I’ve been there too.
Our first logo was, ummmm … a lot.
Purple and orange. With gradients, shadows, and bevels. Very MacWorld 2005.
But ya know what?
That old logo wasn’t a mistake. It was 100% right for who we were — at the time we launched it.
Just like your early website was right for where you started.
It did the job and told your story at that stage. And every lead, sale, and conversation it generated was one of the “dots” on the path to where you are today.
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Branding, marketing, website, design … it can’t be a one-and-done effort.
It’s about evolving.
The voice you found after years of client feedback …
You couldn’t have scripted that at the start.
The UX changes you made after tracking user behavior …
You couldn’t have predicted that in a wireframe.
When you look back, you can clearly see the stepping stones. All the strategic choices that make you a more confident businessperson today.
The key is viewing those milestones through an objective lens.
When you critique your branding, don’t just ask, “Do I still like it?” Instead, ask questions that connect past to present.
Does it tell the right story?
Your visuals, tone, and content should reflect your business now, not what it was when you first launched.Does it speak to your ideal audience?
If your clients have evolved, your brand message needs to address their current goals and needs.Does it work in today’s landscape?
Design trends, tech standards, and marketing channels change. Almost overnight. An outdated website that’s slow to load and lousy on mobile will definitely impact what people think about your business in 2025.Does it feel consistent?
Website, social, email, print — if they feel like distant cousins instead of family, it’s time for realignment.Are you proud to share it?
If you hesitate to hand out your business card or send someone to your website, that’s your gut telling you it’s time for an update.
You shouldn’t be embarrassed by the early version(s) of your brand. After all, it’s the reason you know enough to want something better.
The goal isn’t to pretend the early years didn’t happen.
It’s to make sure the dots you’re adding NOW enhance the big picture.
Power Prompt
AI is great at pattern-spotting; when you give it the right questions, it can help you see your brand from a fresh angle. This prompt uses the five re-evaluation questions from earlier to help you reflect without losing sight of your history.
PASTE THIS AI PROMPT:
You are a perceptive brand critic with a knack for spotting what works and what’s out of sync. I’ll share my current brand elements (logo, colors, website link, tagline, sample copy) and describe my ideal audience.
[ Share your reference ]
Using these five questions, evaluate my brand:
Does it tell the right story?
Does it speak to my ideal audience?
Does it work in today’s landscape?
Does it feel consistent?
Should I be proud to share it?
For each question, give me a short, constructive analysis.
Cold emails don’t have to feel gross.
Most people hear “cold email” and picture a sweaty handshake from a stranger on a city bus. [ You’re welcome. 😜 ]
But you’ve probably sent them without even realizing it …
That friendly DM to a podcaster? Cold email.
That intro request to a friend-of-a-friend? Cold email.
The problem isn’t cold emailing. It’s doing it badly.
Stiff, jargon-heavy, desperate messages are just awkward for everyone.
But what if your cold emails felt like handing a neighbor a plate of warm cookies? [ Uh, yes please! 🍪 ]
That’s what my friend Laura teaches in her Feel-Good Email Profit Kit. How to write messages people want to open (and actually respond to).
Lucky for you, I talked her into giving you free access. Thank me later. Preferably with cookies. [ 😉 ]
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Monday Musing
What makes YOU send a cold email straight to the trash? |
Heads Up! The links in our “Victory Points” section are affiliate links, which means I earn a small commission if you decide to make a purchase. I only share games I genuinely love and KNOW you’ll enjoy too. Pinky promise. 😉
Victory Points
By: Mike Shary
( my board-game-loving, copywriter extraordinaire and mentor, Dad ❤️ )
Some games ask you to plan ahead. Faraway dares you to plan backward.
In this quick little tableau-builder for two to six players, you explore a mysterious landscape by laying Region cards in a line. Each turn, you draft a card and add it to the end of your path, not knowing exactly how it will interact with what comes next.
You might chase Sanctuary cards by playing numbers in perfect order. You might lean into icons that whisper future goals.
But the truth is, you’re always walking blind.
Why? Because you don’t score your journey from beginning to end … you score it in reverse.
The result is often a totally surprising twisting of your expectations. Cards you played early rely on conditions that only appear later.
That clever pattern you started five turns ago? It only matters if future-you remembered to finish it. (And the laughs that erupt as you reveal those common missed opportunities are priceless.)
At its heart, Faraway is a game of timing and revelation. It forces you to embrace ambiguity and uncertainty. You’re not just making moves. You’re leaving breadcrumbs for a version of yourself who might not fully discover what they mean until the very end.
In business, in leadership, in life — we move forward without certainty. The shape of the journey only becomes clear when we look back.
Faraway is a fun reminder that meaning often comes later. And the most satisfying decisions are the ones that make no sense … until they suddenly do.
Make it a great week! 🙌

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